A Fragile Heart
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Why
it pains us when it does not exists. Why we cry when we say that it’s not mine,
it was never mine? Why we can’t accept the truth that the loved ones of ours
are now not with us. They became someone else’s. As human beings, we can’t tolerate
excessive competitions. This may increase our productivity but only up to a
certain extent. And competition in the matter of heart is the most painful
thing because you cant make anyone just to accept you as you are, it’s the
feeling which works on them, either they have it or they don’t.
It
doesn’t mean always that a beautiful person will like or love another beautiful
person. It happens when only they have no or little chances to find a better
alternative for themselves. If we keep aside the natural facts of “choosing the
best partners by female of any species”. And if we even keep aside the fact
that humans, by their DNA are polygamous. Even if we try to forget that our
human brain by design is a very selfish & greedy machine which can even consume
itself when needed.
We
can find another thing in ourselves is the feeling. Very dangerous thing
indeed. A small amount of feeling can trigger an immense burst of love fear
hatred and whatever emotions you have. However, these three are major players
of our mind and we can’t simply switch them off neither can create any these
things for us. Now feelings can be created by brain too, it’s a very powerful
simulating machine. People say that feelings come straight from the heart but
heart can be tricked and fooled by brain because after all we human have the
best logical calculation machines inbuilt in us and it can project different
thoughts and can screw heart even.
Now
a days the fashion is to choose the partner logically, be in the relationship
logically, try to love them afterwards if they still remain the logical choice
or get out of that relationship and find another one, else stay in relationship
until the 3rd stage occurs. It can be shown by a good flowchart
anyways I don’t have a wish to do so for now. Ha ha ha
But
the matter still remains, our heart stays fragile all the time, that’s why we
try to protect it with our brain, brain tricks the heart and we try to find
love and other emotions in other earthly elements. But can’t we just shut our
hearts off? I have seen some people living without feelings. In our holy books
it has written to throw away all emotions so that we can know the truth, its
really golden words because heart always shadows our outlook. But really are
there any people living without feelings? I don’t think so because sooner of
later I see them break and when they does all their emotions come out and I
realize that they were never strong persons themselves but they acted like a
water storage dam. And they never opened the valve and that’s why the dam
overflowed and broke it.
That’s
why I think it’s a better plan to live with a fragile heart because once it
overflows we lost out heart, its good to show emotions, to forgive easily, to
love badly, to cry like a baby and maybe by the god’s grace you can sleep
happily. I am proud to be a lover. I loved many people. I loved for many times.
Not all love can be defined but I can assure you that the love is not always
how we see it on the screens. Sometimes love hurts. Sometimes we have to let go
our love for the sake of our love. Sometimes we have to forfeit from it just to
make their lives happy. We sometimes stay aloof from it to make them realize
the worth of it and now, most of the times love means pain and sacrifice.
It
doesn’t mean that sacrifice will always be painful. But when it does become so,
people only can wish for die, though it’s the ultimate truth that we will die
eventually someday, but to die without a cause is just unmanly. Now I know some
people, specially people like me can always ask that is there any rule that
boys cant have or express their own emotions? But the matter is that boys are
more emotional than girls but they can hold for much than them, its not bad to
either hold or express your emotions. But it’s the proper timing which matters.
And only it can specify the right and wrong.
Maybe
a fragile heart can become selfish, maybe a pain-filled heart can only spread
pain, maybe people fall into relationships after relationships just to get a
taste of their very first love. But eventually it increases the diameter of
their emptiness, it increases their inner blackhole’s depth. Thus, People fall
into an iterative cycle of love and breakup. Thus, the story of the fragile
heart continues…
Have
a nice day friends, enjoy with your loved ones, dear ones, make your life fill
with fun though its momentarily because if there is happiness then there will
be sadness on its way to you and vice versa.
Bye
