A Not So Complex Thought About Sexuality – Part 3
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I see now a days people get into
relationship fast, starts to explorer each other, then have sex just like that,
and then leave each other with so called NO HARD FEELINGS and keep on MOVING
ON. The current generation is very cool about it. It was not very easy in old
times but now thanks to several types and flavours of condom and pills
sexuality is a piece of cake. Healthy sex is now considered as variety of sex.
Deepthroat, hardcore, bondage, role-play, incest, these are some of the
keywords. Sorry for my limited vocabulary, I don’t have much knowledge about
all these. I stay away from them. It’s not because I am showing the world how
saint I am or showing that I don’t need. It’s because I CAN. And I DON’T NEED.
Why? Simply because my self-control. But anyways my postings on this topic is
not about showing myself as a good boy. It’s about something bigger. Yes
bigger.
Virginity is now a days as cheap
as losing it. People don’t feel any guilt for it. It’s like JUST DO IT kind of
thing now a days. People don’t feel it like keeping it to themselves. The
generation now a days feel that everyone is doing, why shouldn’t we? But the
thing is, who are these EVERYONE? This everyone is the youth. I am a youth too
and despite of my looks I am a better youth than any tom dick harry out there.
Having youth doesn’t means abusing it. It’s a power. And as with all great
power, comes great responsibilities. It is our responsibility to make our youth
not the cause of regret of future.
Some people argues that sex is a
part of love and vice versa. But I say that it’s an outcome of love. It’s not a
necessity or product or result of love. It’s a not a mandatory part. It’s not a
proof of love. If I would love my partner I would never try to steal their
dignity, their self-respect no matter how much they are willing to give it and
those people who talk about the sparks of being together forgets that I have
also been together with some. Never tried to fuck them. Because what I believe,
and what many will disagree to, is that something should come in a series and
having sex comes after marriage in my dictionary. Again I am saying that I am
not any saint but I don’t want to be any sinner. My morality is my police. And
if I cause harm to anyone it will haunt me down always.
Whoever thinks that sex is for
fun, is a fool. Who think that sex is just a pleasure is living under tons of
lies and I feel pity for them. Because in the end you will all become alone and
then you will need only love because sex will not be possible. Now some people
are there who thinks that they are over smart. They flirt with, have
relationship with hot guys/girls, enjoys their sex life to optimum, and then
marries someone with good heart by either making them fool or emotionally weak
by feeding them tons of bullshit and they think that they conquered all the
odds and got best of both worlds. But then again they forget that there is no
power bigger than truth. Yes truth can be bended, adjusted and tailored
sometimes to fit with the reality but it can’t be hidden forever. So confession
is always the best way of avoiding it. But then again it’s up to the mentality
of the other person to accept or reject that person based on the hard truth.
Truth should always be appreciated
but not that much which can bend the very fabric of life and mental peace. For
example if you have married any non-virgin guy/girl. Could you sleep in peace
while they are not in front of your eyes? Tell me the truth. Swear by the name
of god and cross your heart with it and then tell me. No you can’t unless you
get the 100% faith of their loyalty. One of my friend said “What is lost, is
lost forever”. Well soul matters to me more than flesh. But then again we all
have our mortal traits. You can trust them with your life but not with your
heart. You will always live in a constant fear that while you are away somebody
is warming up their bed and it happens to men and women alike. Especially for
men because of their very insecure nature.
So would you accept someone who
is been with someone better than you? Ask yourself.
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